How to Stop Self-Sabotage
This class is for you if you've tried repeatedly to reach for a goal, a dream or an opportunity that always slips away.
If you find yourself asking, "What am I doing wrong?" even when you feel that you've done everything right.
If you feel so overwhelmed and frustrated by what you're life has become that your ready to give up.
If you're ready to bless the world with the gift you've brought to share but you just don't know how to get started.
If you can't find a way to fit into the world and you feel lost, alone and confused.
It's not about what you're trying to accomplish it's about how you're going about it. And that's what we're going to discover!
Join me on Sunday, May 7th at 4:00 pm PST and start turning your life around today. This two hour teleseminar will give you the tools you need to become the winner you've always dreamed of becoming. Fee for this workshop is just $37.00. Replay now available!
Sarah Victoria Leopard - Marcia is totally connected and one hundred percent authentic. I absolutely loved working with her and would recommend her to anyone wishing to pursue energetic or spiritual healing and needs support along the way. Her kindness, generosity of spirit and sense of both humor and realism speak for themselves. Let Marcia's talents inspire you & help you heal - you'll soon see what I mean!
Robert Landolt -I'm not exactly sure where to start in my story with the marvelous Marcia Martin... I first saw some of her posts on Facebook a couple of months ago. Eventually, I made the effort to connect with her for her complimentary consultation. From the first conversation, we connected on numerous levels. It was as if we had known each other for lifetimes as we talked about many aspects of my life--the good and the not so good.
I was the product of a semi-classical dysfunctional home of the 60's and 70's--complicated by parental alcoholism and rage/anger issues. Although my parents didn't try to be less than adequate guardians and role models, they in fact were. I, being the oldest child and the only boy, probably endured the brunt of my parent's dysfunction.
I developed many inappropriate traits and also suffered addiction and codependent issues. I sought the forms of recovery available in my twenties and made significant progress into my mid-fifties. Even though I was sober nearly thirty years by the Grace of God, there were still unsolved dilemmas I had been trying to address. My lingering adult-child and codependent issues had seen only minimal progress in the past several years before Marcia came into my life--and my rescue!
Within a few sessions of working with her, we uncovered and addressed issues that had been buried five decades. With Marcia's help, I was able to find, communicate with, and understand my inner children that had been so long neglected in my psyche. Marcia's gifts of intuitive perception and her loving thorough approach produced light years of progress in only a few sessions. Besides freeing my mind from its unhealthy programming of my youth, we were able to unleash many of my higher traits and gifts to share with the universe. With her expert guidance and exquisitely loving nature, I am finally living and FEELING the way all humans are meant to.
Although our regular sessions are nearing completion, our soul connection will never cease. Our encounter and divinely guided work together, are absolutely among the best things that have ever happened in my life. I am so grateful to have crossed paths with you, my dearest Marcia. Thank you so much, and thank you God and your Agents for the biggest miracle in my life so far. Love to you always Marcia, and may God bless you immensely!
Your friend eternally,
Patrick Hayne - Original post-November 2015: In 2014 I moved from Colorado to Los Angles. I was a young Injured boy who suffered from a major lack of self-love. I was living in a house full of boys all trying to survive and succeed in the Hollywood lifestyle. I was always trying to find ways to motivate my self and was always trying to find my 0 point (just being neutral, otherwise I was a mess). I was an alcohol abuser, drug abuser (Cocaine, Marijuana, MDMA, Prescription drugs) and I was severely unhappy and felt a deep deep deep burning of wanting. I just wanted so badly to be loved and appreciated and held and seen. I felt that no one could see me and no one would love me because I was damaged goods, I was unlovable, I was bad for people and I should stay out of their lives and avoid them, or they would hurt me so I should keep my guard up. Well... When my ship finally hit the LA and I sought out the first acting coach who would skyrocket me to success and the Celebrity life style. I was motivated. I burned with passion and fire. I was going to make it and I was going to make it in a month. It was MY TIME and I was going to take it. My acting coach had us work a monologue as one of our exercises and that day changed my life forever. At the very end of the class, he was lecturing about many things beautiful (acting) when he sighted us for questions. How was my monologue? I asked with great confidence. He read me like a book. "Ohh you poor things... You are going to quit Patrick." Howard said. I froze… what did he mean by this? "You look so diligently for other's approval because you so badly want to be good. You don’t love yourself." 'You will drive yourself to quit, you poor thing." I wanted to die! It never left me. I drove home sad, upset, frustrated, I couldn't understand what had happened. The months went by and we did more rigorous work pushing the emotional envelope as the process moved further and further along. Eventually, my work became more and more frustrating and burdensome; I started to get stressed all the time, anger was always burning in the layers of my skin. I was going to quit. He was so fucking right, I was going to quit and it would be all my fault and I would have killed myself over it. I contemplated the ways I would. I was dying on the inside and out. Eventually, it got to the point where I was lost and hopeless. I begged for the Universe, for god, for someone to come and help me with this drudgery that was my life. Then one day this woman came with a piece of paper and on it was a story. The story told of a boy who was mistreated and unloved, a boy who was lost and had been hurt at a very young age, a boy whom always tried to give all of his love to others and no love to himself, and a boy who was never taught how to be loved. I broke, my heart hit the floor; she was so exact about so many things that had happened to me in my life. About my father and how our relationship had always been one of physical distress and constant confrontation. How I was the poster child in my family for making up for the love that my family lacked. It was absurd. She knew things I had never told anyone...anyone!! She said to me. "Patrick I am going to bring you down to the bottom and I am going to build you back up into the strong wonderful man that you are deep inside (makes me cry thinking about it). Today I walk proudly down the street knowing that I am becoming that strong loving man more and more every day. Knowing that someone is there seeing me (me), that someone is there understanding me, that someone is there appreciating me, and that someone is there helping (Marcia and me!). I learned that deep down inside I am beautiful, I am successful because I am me, I am happy because I should be, and that I am loved because I am worthy. My acting career is creating wakes in front of me! My love life for the first time ever feels like it is actually in a good place. I couldn't be more grateful for the gift that Marcia gave me, my life! Thank you, Marcia, for being the Angel that you are. The Mother God who spreads her gifts of love through out this whole world. I love you and will always be great full for all the times we have shared as colleagues in this journey of life.
Patrick Hayne Reardon
P.s. May your family be blessed with love, prosperity, riches, and togetherness. You deserve it and so does the people you love.
UPDATE: Thursday, October 06, 2016 I have introduced many friends and other actors to Marcia's service and I personally have witnessed the magical transformation these actor's gain from doing this deep work. I look back on the time I shared with Marcia and all the tools she taught me and I am able to live life from a healthy standpoint with skills that now give me the privilege to help others. It has been about 2 year's since my last session with Marcia and one of the biggest things she wanted me to gain out of my therapy was not only autonomy from my family but also autonomy from her as well. She is the kind of therapist who wants you to grow and utilize her skills to become an individual who can take on the challenges of life from a loving, forgiving, and accepting perspective. I could never pay back the teachings that this magical being has bestowed upon me! Thank you again, Marcia, for being such a wonderful teacher and friend!
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We've all been there. There's that initial rush we feel when we're planning out our success. It feels as though our success is assured, predestined, written in the stars and so we plunge right in.
But... what if you didn't have to start over because you got it right the first time and every time? The key is to eliminate self-sabotage, establish your alignment with self and source and to be true to your authentic self.
It's a tall order and seems near impossible and up until a short time ago I, too, was running for cover from the self-sabotage I was engaging in. Now I want to help you win at the game of living. It doesn't matter what you want to accomplish. It doesn't even matter if you've failed repeatedly in the past. All that matters is that you understand who you are and how to move forward.
And then it begins, that slow steady decline toward failure. When it arrives it seems as inevitable as our success seemed assured and that inevitability makes the fall feel so much harder, so much more difficult to recover from and makes us reluctant to pick ourselves up and begin again.
Join me on Sunday, May 7th at 4:00 pm PST for a two hour workshop via teleseminar that will stop your self-sabotaging behavior for good. Fee for this workshop is just $37.00.